Love Tinkering Spreads for when things start to go down

Love is a great and joyful thing, but when it goes wrong, it can go really, terribly bad. Furthermore, some of the things that might really irritate us as humans are tough for us to communicate, which makes it challenging for a reconciliation to take place and for love to rekindle

How to use Love Tinkering Spreads in your Relationship

So, because things can go really bad, these love spreads we will show can offer fresh perspectives and insights into the issues at hand. It encourages open communication and fosters empathy between partners. By gaining a deeper understanding of each other’s feelings and concerns, couples can work together to find practical solutions and strengthen their bond, leading to a more harmonious and fulfilling relationship.

Heartbreak Spread

A partnership needs two to work, and when there is a problem, it is unusual that only one side is to blame. Not only that, but if the problem is to be solved, a concerted effort to bridge the divide and promote unity is required. This five-card spread can help you understand the problem at hand and create harmony in your relationship.

  1. Your responsibility – What is your responsibility into the issues at hand?
  2. Your partner’s responsibility – What is your partner’s responsibility into the issues at hand?
  3. Relationship Outcome – What is the outcome of the relationship in the end?
  4. Your Action – What is the action you can take to solve the issues at hand?
  5. Your Partner’s Action – What is the action your partner can take to solve the issues at hand?

Roots or Wings Spread

One basic and simple spread that can help you react to underlying issues and provide some clarity and insight into whether you should invest in the relationship and stay committed to it or whether it’s time to finally let go and fly towards new opportunities.

  1. Roots – What aspects or factors encourage you to remain in the current situation?
  2. Wings – What aspects or factors suggest it may be time to move on or let go?

Leave or Stay Spread

One slightly more complicated spread that can help you decide your next step in your relationship, similar to Roots or Wings but with more depth and a broader spectrum to fill all the gaps and take an informed and thoughtful decision.

  1. Advice– What is the advice for the current situation or preview of the outcome?
  2. Stay– What are some reasons for staying?
  3. State– What is the current state of the relationship?
  4. Leave– What are some reasons for leaving?
 

Farewell for now, We hope you use these spreads for your own relationship

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